A large part of my success is that I have my rules, I understand how female psychology works, and I don't let my ego & emotions take over the situation at hand, no matter how hot the girl is. Until you learn how to control your emotions, and ALWAYS follow your rules, you will never truly become successful with attractive women.
Women want to surrender to something that is greater than them, and when you're following their rules, and not your own, she sees you for the desperate, spineless, balless, jelly custard excuse for a man that you are, and nothing more.