Talking to seduction community guys over and over again, and now I'm noticing a common occurrence that is preventing progress: separating game from ego. What do I mean by this? These guys know how things are suppose to be run, yet they ignore it in favor of succumbing to their emotions.

Talking to seduction community guys over and over again, and now I'm noticing a common occurrence that is preventing progress: separating game from ego. What do I mean by this? These guys know how things are suppose to be run, yet they ignore it in favor of succumbing to their emotions. There's nothing wrong with being who you are, but you really need to change who you are until it is congruent with where you want your game to be. Still not getting me? I've been out with The Peacemaker a few nights when I was meeting up with women. These girls were sending me texts, and when he asked why I wouldn't respond or go looking for them etc., I told him that I run my game like I run a business.

Although I really wanted to see those girls (two separate girls, by the way), I was willing to separate my emotions from the equation, and think like a business man. I said to myself 'these are the results I want, and here's what I have to be willing to risk in order to get them'. What happened? I ended up with both girls by following my rules and not letting my emotions take over. And looking at many of the guys I talk to, they have a very hard time separating their emotions from the equation. For instance, one guy knew that he was supplicating by trying to trick a girl into going out on a date with him, but he kept doing it anyway, knowing that it wasn't the smartest decision. This girl was more attractive than the types of girls he was use to, and he was willing to do anything, even indirectly beg, in order to get her to go out with him. Neither of which I would EVER do, no matter how badly I wanted the girl.

He knew she was being manipulative, but he was willing to be manipulated in order to secure a date with an attractive woman. Everytime she mentioned one of her rules, he was willing to bend. Later on, he really had the audacity to ask me what he was doing wrong. And you see this all the time with guys in the seduction community. They have their methods, but the instant they think they have a solid chance with an attractive woman, all of their personal rules and logic goes right out of the window in favor of following their irrational emotions.

A large part of my success is that I have my rules, I understand how female psychology works, and I don't let my ego & emotions take over the situation at hand, no matter how hot the girl is. Until you learn how to control your emotions, and ALWAYS follow your rules, you will never truly become successful with attractive women. Women want to surrender to something that is greater than them, and when you're following their rules, and not your own, she sees you for the desperate, spineless, balless, jelly custard excuse for a man that you are, and nothing more.